In the dog eat dog world of anonymous sex dating, being the nice guy is a recipe for disaster. Never mind being stepped on or laughed out, nine times out of ten, you also stand to be used, abused, and even flat out ripped off. Who wants all that unnecessary drama? If you want to make money off a sexy hookup site, you have to use blackhat tactics. You have to go the whole nine yards and fight fire with fire. Let’s just put it this way, your competitors won’t hesitate pulling the stops to get an advantage over you, you shouldn’t hesitate doing the same thing.

Infiltrate your competitors’ sites and siphon away

Let’s face it, the sex hookup site concept is hardly new. It is not, pun intended, virgin territory. There are tons of other sites ahead of you. This is actually good news. Use this fact to your advantage. You should join all these sites and see how they communicate with their members. If you don’t have the luxury of time, you might want to hire a virtual assistant from a country with a huge population of people who speak English as a second language. Maybe an assistant you can hire for $2.50 an hour from Kenya or Bangladesh? Whatever direction you choose, you need to figure out how your competitor sites message their members. You then intercept the messaging process by inserting yourself in the middle of the communication channel.

Many dating sites have forums. Many of these forums allow for live links that link out to websites outside of the dating site’s domain. Use this fact to your advantage by posting lots of threads or replies on the forum sections of these sites. You might get quite a bit of clicks if your posts grab enough attention.